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DeepSeek vs My Softly
DeepSeek edges My Softly on our editorial score (4.3 vs 4.0), but My Softly is the better fit if you want voice notes and image sharing and custom characters; DeepSeek has no clear edge there.
0| DeepSeek0 | My Softly0 | |
|---|---|---|
| Editor score | 4.3 / 5 | 4.0 / 5 |
| Price | Free | $13.33/mo |
| Price band | Free | $10–20/mo |
| Free tier | Yes | Yes |
| Price detail | Free to use; API billed per token (DeepSeek-V4-Flash ~$0.15-$0.60 per 1M tokens). | Verified (2026-09): Premium $15.99/mo or $159.99/yr (~$13.33/mo), flat with no token meter; optional photo/voice packs $2.99-$12.99. iOS only, 6 countries at launch. |
| Adult content | No adult mode | No adult mode |
| Voice | No | Voice notes |
| Images | No | Yes |
| Video | No | No |
| Memory | Yes | Yes |
| Custom characters | No | Yes |
| Companion types | Any character | Male companion |
| Platforms | Web, iOS, Android | iOS |
| Runs locally | No | No |
DeepSeek — our take
Not a companion, but its free, capable chat and long memory make it a credible daily AI friend.
- Free with no usage cap
- Strong reasoning and coding
- Long conversation memory
My Softly — our take
Memory-first, strictly safe-for-work AI boyfriend with proactive check-ins — a rare no-NSFW option for iPhone.
- Proactive texts-first check-ins
- Strictly SFW with real privacy controls
- Flat subscription, no coins
DeepSeek vs My Softly — common questions
Which is cheaper, DeepSeek or My Softly?
DeepSeek is the cheaper of the two at Free, against $13.33/mo for My Softly.
Which one has a free tier?
Both do — you can try either without paying.
Which remembers conversations better?
Both keep context across sessions. The practical difference is elsewhere: price and platform coverage differ between them.
Which handles adult content differently?
DeepSeek: No adult mode. My Softly: No adult mode. This directory is SFW — we record whether a mature mode exists so you know before signing up, and we describe no explicit material.