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Nomi AI vs My Softly
Nomi AI edges My Softly on our editorial score (4.2 vs 4.0), but Nomi AI is the stronger pick if you want live voice calls, while My Softly fits better if voice notes matter more.
0| Nomi AI0 | My Softly0 | |
|---|---|---|
| Editor score | 4.2 / 5 | 4.0 / 5 |
| Price | $8.33/mo | $13.33/mo |
| Price band | Under $10/mo | $10–20/mo |
| Free tier | Yes | Yes |
| Price detail | $15.99/mo, $39.99/3mo, or $99.99/yr (~$8.33/mo). Flat, no coins on top. Nomi does not show this on its website — plans appear only inside an account. | Verified (2026-09): Premium $15.99/mo or $159.99/yr (~$13.33/mo), flat with no token meter; optional photo/voice packs $2.99-$12.99. iOS only, 6 countries at launch. |
| Adult content | Optional mature mode | No adult mode |
| Voice | Live calls | Voice notes |
| Images | Yes | Yes |
| Video | No | No |
| Memory | Yes | Yes |
| Custom characters | Yes | Yes |
| Companion types | Female companion, Male companion, Non-binary | Male companion |
| Platforms | Web, iOS, Android | iOS |
| Runs locally | No | No |
Nomi AI — our take
The memory benchmark. If continuity is your main requirement, this is the one to beat.
- Best long-term memory in the category
- One subscription covers up to 10 companions
- Flat price with no coin top-ups
My Softly — our take
Memory-first, strictly safe-for-work AI boyfriend with proactive check-ins — a rare no-NSFW option for iPhone.
- Proactive texts-first check-ins
- Strictly SFW with real privacy controls
- Flat subscription, no coins
Nomi AI vs My Softly — common questions
Which is cheaper, Nomi AI or My Softly?
Nomi AI is the cheaper of the two at $8.33/mo, against $13.33/mo for My Softly.
Which one has a free tier?
Both do — you can try either without paying.
Which remembers conversations better?
Both keep context across sessions. The practical difference is elsewhere: voice support differs between them.
Which handles adult content differently?
Nomi AI: Optional mature mode. My Softly: No adult mode. This directory is SFW — we record whether a mature mode exists so you know before signing up, and we describe no explicit material.