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SillyTavern vs My Softly
SillyTavern edges My Softly on our editorial score (4.3 vs 4.0), but SillyTavern is the stronger pick if you want live voice calls, while My Softly fits better if voice notes matter more.
0| SillyTavern0 | My Softly0 | |
|---|---|---|
| Editor score | 4.3 / 5 | 4.0 / 5 |
| Price | Free | $13.33/mo |
| Price band | Free | $10–20/mo |
| Free tier | Yes | Yes |
| Price detail | Free and open source under AGPL-3.0. You pay only for whichever model API you connect. | Verified (2026-09): Premium $15.99/mo or $159.99/yr (~$13.33/mo), flat with no token meter; optional photo/voice packs $2.99-$12.99. iOS only, 6 countries at launch. |
| Adult content | Optional mature mode | No adult mode |
| Voice | Live calls | Voice notes |
| Images | Yes | Yes |
| Video | No | No |
| Memory | Yes | Yes |
| Custom characters | Yes | Yes |
| Companion types | Any character | Male companion |
| Platforms | Desktop, Web | iOS |
| Runs locally | Yes | No |
SillyTavern — our take
If you want total control and zero subscription, this is where the advanced users live.
- Complete control over prompt and memory
- Works with local or hosted models
- Free forever
My Softly — our take
Memory-first, strictly safe-for-work AI boyfriend with proactive check-ins — a rare no-NSFW option for iPhone.
- Proactive texts-first check-ins
- Strictly SFW with real privacy controls
- Flat subscription, no coins
SillyTavern vs My Softly — common questions
Which is cheaper, SillyTavern or My Softly?
SillyTavern is the cheaper of the two at Free, against $13.33/mo for My Softly.
Which one has a free tier?
Both do — you can try either without paying.
Which remembers conversations better?
Both keep context across sessions. The practical difference is elsewhere: voice support differs between them.
Which handles adult content differently?
SillyTavern: Optional mature mode. My Softly: No adult mode. This directory is SFW — we record whether a mature mode exists so you know before signing up, and we describe no explicit material.