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Wysa vs My Softly
Wysa edges My Softly on our editorial score (3.9 vs 4.0), but My Softly is the better fit if you want voice notes and image sharing and custom characters; Wysa has no clear edge there.
0| Wysa0 | My Softly0 | |
|---|---|---|
| Editor score | 3.9 / 5 | 4.0 / 5 |
| Price | $8.33/mo billed yearly | $13.33/mo |
| Price band | Under $10/mo | $10–20/mo |
| Free tier | Yes | Yes |
| Price detail | Free AI chat and self-help tools. Premium is $99.99/yr for the full toolkit; Premium Plus with a human coach is $99.99/mo (US App Store rates). | Verified (2026-09): Premium $15.99/mo or $159.99/yr (~$13.33/mo), flat with no token meter; optional photo/voice packs $2.99-$12.99. iOS only, 6 countries at launch. |
| Adult content | No adult mode | No adult mode |
| Voice | No | Voice notes |
| Images | No | Yes |
| Video | No | No |
| Memory | Yes | Yes |
| Custom characters | No | Yes |
| Companion types | Any character | Male companion |
| Platforms | iOS, Android | iOS |
| Runs locally | No | No |
Wysa — our take
A companion that is honest about being a tool rather than a relationship.
- Evidence-based techniques
- Clear safety escalation
- Free tier is functional
My Softly — our take
Memory-first, strictly safe-for-work AI boyfriend with proactive check-ins — a rare no-NSFW option for iPhone.
- Proactive texts-first check-ins
- Strictly SFW with real privacy controls
- Flat subscription, no coins
Wysa vs My Softly — common questions
Which is cheaper, Wysa or My Softly?
Wysa is the cheaper of the two at $8.33/mo billed yearly, against $13.33/mo for My Softly.
Which one has a free tier?
Both do — you can try either without paying.
Which remembers conversations better?
Both keep context across sessions. The practical difference is elsewhere: price and platform coverage differ between them.
Which handles adult content differently?
Wysa: No adult mode. My Softly: No adult mode. This directory is SFW — we record whether a mature mode exists so you know before signing up, and we describe no explicit material.